If you haven't heard by now – Alicia Keys & Kassem "Swizz Beats" Dean are officially married. Eh. Now I'm no "hater" (see my "Pseudo-Hater" blog about my strong dislike for that word) but judging how these two came to be – I would be shocked if they stay together in holy matrimony. Don’t get it twisted, nobody is plotting the downfall of A. Keys but looking at the situation it not hard speculate and come to your own conclusion.
My granny (my favorite person to quote) always told me NEVER build your foundation on sinking sand. A. Keys rushed into a relationship with Swizz – she got pregnant by him and now they are married. With her baby coming she is going to slow down, but he is picking up his schedule with the projects he's working on. They have not had any time to lay down any type of solid foundation – which is needed in any relationship, especially one where you want to spend the rest of your life with that person. Marriage is a contractual agreement, but it is also a sacred vow; moreover, I do not see how a person can marry some one who has: a. cheated on his wife, b. cheated on you with another chick (all while still be married to his wife), c. denies the kid he had with the other chick, d. doesn't pay child support for the other kid, etc. etc. To me that sounds like a man who is just simply not marriage material. The women he was with previously didn't change his habits – so nine times out of ten, you won't be able to change them either.
But I guess in AK's eyes, Swizz can do no wrong. All of his past wrongs don’t matter but honestly she is just going to becoming a poster girl for "When Sticking By Your Dog (Man) Goes Wrong." Her hedonism resulted in another baby for Swizz Beatz and a big a mess that will just open the floodgates of karma to come back and bite her in the ass.
Right now, it is all a romanticized dream. Swizz may have three kids by three women, owe the IRS money, divorce his wife one month and propose the next, and be butt ugly --- Alicia don’t care what nobody says, she's in "love."
I'm not calling AK a homewrecker because honestly, even Mashonda should have know that Swizz could not be trusted when she married him (he was hoe then too). But she knowingly laid down with a married man (no matter how fucked up the marriage was) – I guess some man is better than no man at all. Was she lonely? Did she just want a baby? Who knows. But how you get him, is how you lose him – hopefully a screw or two is tighten in Swizz's head & he'll do right by her…but that might just take some prayer and a miracle.
What do ya'll think?
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